September is here and that means cooler weather, the start of fall semester and National Recovery Month celebrations. “Recovery Month,now in its 25th year, highlights individuals who have reclaimed their lives and are living happy and healthy lives in long-term recovery and also honors the prevention, treatment, and recovery service providers who make recovery possible. Recovery Month promotes the message that recovery in all its forms is possible, and also encourages citizens to take action to help expand and improve the availability of effective prevention, treatment, and recovery services for those in need.” (SAMSHA)
The StepUP Program at Augsburg College and the Minnesota Recovery Connection hosted the annual Spirituality Breakfast on September 4th. This event is one of many recovery events held every September in Minnesota and around the country. For details about the September 20th Walk for Recovery and the “clean V” art exhibit, visit the Minnesota Recovery Connection.
Nearly 200 people attended the Spirituality Breakfast, which was held in the Hoversten chapel on campus. As light streamed through the high windows, Dan M, a StepUP student and junior at Augsburg, read President Obama’s Recovery Month Proclamation.
Leoni M, a StepUP student and senior at Augsburg, shared her reflection on her journey with spirituality. She shared her recent frustration with someone, and a roommate reminded her that “When a person offends us, it is often because they are spiritually sick.” Leonie humbly admitted she was learning tolerance. “Tolerance means that although I am the composer of my own life, I need to recognize that others around me are also playing their own songs – and I must respect that.”
Leonie shared her favorite story about Buddha, the story of having tea with Mara, revealing the power of having a friendly heart. “The night before his enlightenment, Buddha fought a great battle with the demon god, Mara, who attacked the then Siddhartha Gautama with everything he had: lust, greed, anger and doubt. Having failed, Mara left in disarray on the morning of Buddha’s enlightenment. But Mara was only temporarily discouraged. Even after Buddha had become deeply revered throughout India, Mara continued to make unexpected appearances. And when Mara returned, instead of ignoring him, Buddha would calmly acknowledge his presence, saying, “I see you, Mara.” He would than invite him for tea and serve him as an honored guest. Mara would stay for a while and then go; throughout the visits the Buddha remained free and undisturbed.” For Leonie, Mara is a form of troubling emotions. “Practicing having a friendly heart allows us to be kind to ourselves. It gives us the opportunity to see what is true around us, and guides us to handle those fearful emotions, unexpected burdens, and restores us back to balance.”
Leonie’s final message was the most important gift she has ever received: the attitude of gratitude. “The attitude of gratitude,” as Melody Beattie wrote, “unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, and confusion into clarity.”
JoAnne Campbell-Rice—a spiritual director at Hazelden’s Dan Anderson Renewal Center—was the keynote speaker. She read the poem “When I am Among the Trees,” by Mary Oliver, and focused her talk on the last two stanzas:
Around me the trees stir in their leaves
and call out, “Stay awhile.”
The light flows from their branches.
And they call again, “It’s simple,” they say,
“and you too have come
into the world to do this, to go easy, to be filled
with light, and to shine.”
Instructions from the trees include, first, “Go easy.” She encouraged us to give ourselves permission to take some time daily with no agenda. Second, “Get filled with light.” Find something to savor every day; we grow into what we savor. Finally, the trees remind us “to shine.” JoAnne said “Say yes to the invitation to enlarge your spiritual life.” She left us with the question: “What’s the smallest thing you can commit to, to enhance your spiritual fitness?”
Later that morning in daily chapel the focus was Spirituality and Recovery. After singing “Will You Let Me Be Your Servant,” and saying the third step prayer, the audience heard a story of hope from StepUP student Andrew H. He shared his experiences in recovery, including his spiritual journey, with authenticity and hope.